Why are fathers like this...?

  • Why does my father take better care of his eight year old son than he ever did of my sister and me? I'm twenty two, and my sister is twenty four, but my father has been in his sonâ ™s life since birth. My father lived in the same house as my sister and me for three years out of our whole entire lives.

    Whenever I would ask my father for help with anything, he always had some excuse. When he lived with us he just worked, stayed on his computer, and helped other people with theirs. He has a nice car, an Audi A4 to be exact. When I asked him to help me get a car, he asked me why do I only call him for financial reasons and never just to say "hello". I was astonished by the fact that he could even ask such a thing when he is the one that left us and never kept in contact. He would occasionally talk to my mother but not my sister and me.

    Two years ago when I turned twenty, he took me out for my birthday. After we left the restaurant he took me to see my brother. I can't even begin to tell you how angry I was. My brother is a total brat and has way more than what my father ever gave to my sister and me. Meanwhile, I still don't have a car and paying for my education all on my own.

    What is his problem?


  • There can be MANY reasons your father acts the way he does. Without going to far in depth, you need to try to sit down with him and tell him whats on your mind. Try to talk it over with him and spend some good quality time on it. Depending on the outcome, you need to remember that you cannot change people or peoples perception of you. In your fathers case, if he has some issues that are unresolvable then it is your responsibility to find happiness for yourself and move on.

    You may also want some counseling on this too.

    GL


  • well
    i hate to say it but your father is a little sexist.

    you should listen to the song all american girl by carrie underwood and in the beginning,
    it says
    "Since the day, they got married, he been wishing for a little baby boy
    Someone, he could take fishing, throw the football and be his pride and joy
    he could already see him holding that trophy, taking his team to state"

    Well, your father was sorta wanting a boy son,
    and then two girls popped out
    and he was just sorta disapointed
    and now that he has a son
    he's like whoop de doo
    i'm gonna focus all my attention span on HIM
    because my dream has finally come true
    get it?







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